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Maybe it's the fact that I lived in NYC for five years, or maybe I am shyer than I realize.
I knew I needed to mingle, but I wasn't ready to just go up and talk to new guys (I, like you, had been told I was intimidating too, but I was just closed off because I was so uneasy).
Force yourself to stay for at least 30 minutes and try to be open and approachable (i.e., don't sit in the corner at the bar staring at your phone). It made him try harder to impress me and make me feel at ease.
It wound up being the last first date I'd ever go on!
I texted him, trying to bail, but he called me on my crap. My friend told me, "you're never going to meet a guy when I'm here with you.
I'm going home, but I want you to stay for 30 minutes before you leave." I was terrified, but I thought it'd be a good test. J walked up to me at the bar about 10 minutes later.
When I graduated college, I was slightly more comfortable with crushes.