Building a online dating website
They have all the time in the world to make you fall in love with them. 3) Always ask in depth questions about their job, life, childhood, student’s days, and their education and if they always shift the topic back to you, mean they are detouring the details; occasionally they will get offended and make you scared to ask further.4) If you suspect he is a scammer just gently bid farewell and do not ever response to his chat invite.This blog is dedicated to members not familiar or good with the Internet and new to the dating sites.Scammers are internationally linked and they are IT based.They monitor all your emails, YM and your reporting. If you have a virus attacked in your YM then your email has been HACKED., CHANGE YOUR EMAIL/YM PASSWORD, block thier message it may contain virus or if the IP is from your own country for sure it is a SCAM when he claims to be overseas- right!For other emails please check out this website for the instructions: - this site is useful to inform you if your date is telling the truth when he say he is going to bed,work,travelling,etc, just type their YM ID and you are able to check if they are telling the truth......the above is to check if the scammers cheat about their whereabouts and online time.
You cannot escape once you are targeted as they will send many ID's to keep greeting you and in communication with you, constantly chatting you up, preying on you because they know you are lonely, looking for love, ready for new relationship, financially independent, FEAR GOD, ( what religion you believe in, most Nigerian scammers are Christian, making Christian woman their favorite victims).
They chat using almost same style and language : Sentence to watch out for : -am doing fine (the I will be left out or I'm) -take care of yourself for me, -your wish is my command, -bye for now, -love you till the last drop of my blood -talk to me pls (their pls is always end of sentence) -am god fearing, swear by god words, curse themselves (most christian wont do that cos we know what god will do to us), will not hesistate to use words from the bible or quote stories from bible to get the money,- you will be praise for your kindness,hard work and promise to be with you to help you raise your kids,take you go on holidays and marry you ...... words paints a thousand words and that is what they are trained to do....
PAINT A NICE HAPPY WONDERFUL PICTURE so you can trust and fall in love with them!
You can also enter a few sentences, describing yourself in your own words. The search engine button appears on the left panel, and this allows you to locate matches by age, and the country where they live.
Its also possible to show only profiles with pictures.
Like all online criminals, they can hide extremely well. You can, and should of course, file a police report, but normally our local police has no jurisdictions in other continents.